Tidbits

About websites and books and resources to help you make peace with it.

Don’t spend too much time on it.

You've gone through some websites, books and whatnot, tried a few things out, may try others out later.

Then it's time to stop.

I’m not saying you should never check for advice or stay informed, but I'm in favour of keeping it to a minimum. Find what works for you, stick to it and move on. This goes for resources to help you get over it like this text too.

Take showers on the regular.

Just kidding, I won’t insult you by pretending you don’t know what water is and that it can be used for cleaning. I will merely insist on how good life hygiene puts the mind in a better place. Keep a clean place, make sure you have enough sleep every night and try to have good eating habits.

What others may think.

Lot of folks won’t understand. Their personal experience can be very different from yours, or in fact very close. Perhaps they struggled for the longest time to find someone to share life with and did find that diamond. Some folks are just hard-wired to never give up.

Whatever you do, you’re doing it for your own peace of mind. Some are content to never give up, others have it better giving up some things and refocusing on others. You are your own priority; your worldview isn’t other’s. If you’re to close this door, then do so and move on. This decision is between you and yourself only.